I said "I do" to my handsome and thoughtful groom almost three months ago. feels much longer. he is truly my best friend. we stay up way too late talking and laughing lately, which makes getting up for work quite the episode. we have recently walked through a rough few weeks with my surgery, but he has remained calm and collected, and has never left my side, vigilantly giving me eyedrops every hour and even getting me a pirate bear to match me, and bedazzling my ugly eye dr glasses. he is truly a giving kind of guy...always looking out for me and helping me with stuff around the house so i dont over exert my eye.
i have learned that marriage isn't about saying i do as much as it is saying "i dont". its dying to self. i am learning to say that...
i don't need to be right all the time. most of the time, i'm not, and it's not worth fighting just to make myself feel more important and correct.
i don't need to assume my schedule in nursing school, as hectic as it is, is more important than his.
i don't need to store up ammunition for arguments so i can fling them at appropriate times for leverage.
i don't get to whine and complain about the budget that keeps us on track for student loans, because in truth, my husband "gets" the money aspect more than me.
i don't get to be selfish in marriage. it's the fastest way to kill a relationship.
i said "i do" on our wedding day, but i i really learn to say "i don't" every day.
"I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me" Gal 2:20